There is a drastic difference between the way you love wife and the way you love lover before marriage. What do you think, where exactly clashes starts between wife and husband ?
Every one before marrige will look at lot of families in his routine life, finds husband scolds wife and do lot of harrashment. we then realize that this should not happen in our life, speaks to ourself that we should not do this to our would be. So, as we get marry, we start giving lots...lots of love, so that she won't find any gap and She won't recall their parents in memories. This is the first step you put towards shit. In result, you need to maintain same love throughout your life, suppose if you won't be same like your very first days, she says 'You have completely changed, you are no more loving me...'. So, you realize yourself, try to maintain same again...then she starts dominating us...and you won't bear domination...thats it...nothing left over to discuss. Hope you understood. I am not saying that you don't love your partner. Love her, take care of her, make her smile, make her happy, but don't express extra excitement. Don't take her to the head. Other wise you need to take lot of workout to get her down again.
Why should they both (Husband and Wife) fight when they want to live together? Only if they want to stay away from each other, they should seriously fight..this is what I feel.
And when it comes to the difference between loving a lover before marriage & after marriage is simple - love after marriage includes the bonding, obligations & responsibilities! while LBW, these additional aspects wont.
The very first days after marriege, few people think that how she is going to be with us ? Is she cool ? or spicy ? how much she spend money on waste things ? Dont know if this is arranged marriege. So, these first days, one will definetly handover the total salary to wife, either to impress her or for an assumption that she won't waste it as we handover to her itself. Bit shy & smile in face, she agrees that. Thats it...there is no difference that you have put your head on train track. Few days/months she maintains good. You know, you will really impress the way she maintains. Next, a clear idea will struck in their mind, why I should not use money for my expenses ?. As you have already impressed with here maintenance, she doesn't need to request you about her expenses and request money. She starts with little amount. Few may be good. But few will definetly you feel un-neccessary. You tries to expose your feelings. She explains the need which made her to spend. Thats it..and I am sure, that conversation never ends... So, Be Carefull.
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ReplyDeleteEvery one before marrige will look at lot of families in his routine life, finds husband scolds wife and do lot of harrashment. we then realize that this should not happen in our life, speaks to ourself that we should not do this to our would be.
So, as we get marry, we start giving lots...lots of love, so that she won't find any gap and She won't recall their parents in memories. This is the first step you put towards shit. In result, you need to maintain same love throughout your life, suppose if you won't be same like your very first days, she says 'You have completely changed, you are no more loving me...'. So, you realize yourself, try to maintain same again...then she starts dominating us...and you won't bear domination...thats it...nothing left over to discuss. Hope you understood.
I am not saying that you don't love your partner. Love her, take care of her, make her smile, make her happy, but don't express extra excitement. Don't take her to the head. Other wise you need to take lot of workout to get her down again.
Why should they both (Husband and Wife) fight when they want to live together? Only if they want to stay away from each other, they should seriously fight..this is what I feel.
ReplyDeleteAnd when it comes to the difference between loving a lover before marriage & after marriage is simple - love after marriage includes the bonding, obligations & responsibilities! while LBW, these additional aspects wont.
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ReplyDeleteThe very first days after marriege, few people think that how she is going to be with us ? Is she cool ? or spicy ? how much she spend money on waste things ? Dont know if this is arranged marriege. So, these first days, one will definetly handover the total salary to wife, either to impress her or for an assumption that she won't waste it as we handover to her itself. Bit shy & smile in face, she agrees that. Thats it...there is no difference that you have put your head on train track.
Few days/months she maintains good. You know, you will really impress the way she maintains. Next, a clear idea will struck in their mind, why I should not use money for my expenses ?. As you have already impressed with here maintenance, she doesn't need to request you about her expenses and request money. She starts with little amount. Few may be good. But few will definetly you feel un-neccessary. You tries to expose your feelings. She explains the need which made her to spend. Thats it..and I am sure, that conversation never ends...
So, Be Carefull.